Professional marriage counselling in West London
Relationship counselling services in West London
Couples Matter offers a transformative, tailor made solution based counselling service, with flexible appointments, day or evening and always focussed on your needs – our transformational counselling approach is designed to help you to move forward and make the changes you need to improve your relationships.
- Relationship counselling for couples
- Relationship counselling for individuals
- Relationship counselling after an affair
- Coping with a break up, separation & divorce
- 6 week premarital program
Relationship counselling for couples
- Marriage counselling
- Couple counselling – whatever your sexual orientation
- Positive non-judgemental, change oriented approach
- Quick, flexible appointments
People often ask me how a couple can tell if they would/will benefit from relationship counselling; how they can recognise that their relationship problems can no longer be dealt with by themselves. Often it’s when arguments are circular and quickly escalate; there are big issues over money, sex, infidelity, in-laws or children which remain unresolved despite many attempts to get your partner to understand your viewpoint.
In my experience people find it hard to start couple counselling. One of the biggest fears is that exposing the real issues will upset or hurt your partner and make a bad situation even worse potentially ending the relationship altogether. However, problems left unresolved can become worse and real disconnection occurs.
At Couples Matter, couple counselling is focussed on a unique transformative approach in a safe, supportive non blame environment. After an initial consultation, couples will focus on changing the behavioural patterns that have caused problems within their relationship. Each person will implement a clear step by step action plan using powerful tools. Progress made towards agreed goals can therefore be measured at each session.
Start working on your relationships now
Appointments in our Chiswick practice room, or by Skype.
Flexible appointment times to meet your needs.
Call Julie on 07973 663 651 to book an initial consultation or complete our contact form.
Relationship counselling for individuals
- Effective strategies for helping change relationships working with just one person
- Helping clients who lack confidence, find difficulties forming or maintaining relationships
- Positive non-judgemental, change orientated approach
- Quick flexible appointments
Many clients ask if it is possible to change their relationship, if their partner won’t come for help. Your relationship is a dynamic system, which both of you can influence, so when one of you changes how they are, it will automatically lead to an altered relationship. Additionally, when one person seeks helps, the other will often become curious and want to get involved too.
Solve your relationship problems
If you have struggled to form lasting happy relationships, learn why that might be and decide this year will be the year for change
Appointments in our Chiswick practice room, or by Skype.
Flexible appointment times to meet your needs.
Call Julie on 07973 663 651 to book an initial consultation or complete our contact form.
Relationship counselling after an affair
- A first aid kit for couples and individuals
- Providing a framework to Healing the hurt and rebuilding trust in order to recover intimacy and goodwill
- Positive non-judgemental, change orientated approach
- Quick, flexible appointments
Affairs and betrayals can severely strain and threaten any relationship. They can ultimately also end the relationship with all the pain and family consequences that brings. The reasons for an affair are always unique however they have the potential to break the bond of trust and often trigger a complex web of emotions for the individual who has been betrayed.
Although many people choose to end their relationship following the discovery of an affair or a betrayal, a great number will want to work things through. A betrayal may deeply shake the foundations of a relationship, but it can paradoxically make it stronger and lead to real growth for both, especially if there is an attempt to rebuild trust and communication.
How counselling can help
We can help you to heal, grieve what has been lost and discover whether a new relationship between you is possible.
Appointments in our Chiswick practice room, or by Skype.
Flexible appointments to meet your needs.
Call Julie on 07973 663 651 to book an initial consultation or complete our contact form.
Coping with a break up, separation and divorce
- A caring and supportive space to find a way forward and re build your life
- Helping parents work as a team organizing workable arrangements for their children
- Positive non judgemental, change oriented approach
- Quick, flexible appointments
It’s never easy when a marriage or significant relationship ends. Whatever the reason for the split and whether you wanted it or not, the breakup of a relationship can turn your whole world upside down and trigger all sorts of painful and unsettling feelings. But there are plenty of things you can do to get through this difficult time and move on. You can even learn from the experience and grow into a stronger, wiser person.
We can work together to emerge stronger and ready to move into an exciting new beginning.
Appointments in our Chiswick practice room, or by Skype.
Flexible appointment times to meet your needs.
Call Julie on 07973 663 651 to book an initial consultation or complete our contact form.
6 week premarital program
Before taking a commitment it is sensible for many couples to discover each other at a deeper level, find out their unique ‘couple fit’ and learn how best to keep their relationship strong.
In this program you will discover:
- Your beliefs, values and goals
- What sustains and strengthens ‘loving attachment’
- How to effectively communicate and make decisions
- Meeting each other’s needs for sex and affection
- How to manage conflict
We can help you to make your relationship the best it can be.
Appointments in our Chiswick practice room.
Flexible appointment times to meet your needs.
Call Julie on 07973 663 651 to book an initial consultation or complete our contact form.